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15 days til liftoff....
 

Have posted here about my international family and my Portland, OR based son and daughter (by marriage)'s large family in India. (search for keyword “cavitation” in other stuff)
 

I'm just a NJ DeadHead who roosted near Woodstock in New Paltz 27 years ago. Nothing in my Wonder Bread upbringing prepared me for moving to Springtown TN to have Ina May Gaskin homebirth this son. In this marriage, I am the DeadHead - from Jersey - who needs to ooop something down to find astral planes.
 

But my dear wife is the Child of the Universe and has pulled me along with her to amazing places and experiences. Very Grateful and appreciative.
Gonna get strange…. heading out on an epic trip soon. This Jersey boy just holding on tight.
Newark NJ > Zurich > Mumbai > Varanasi > Mumbai > Zurich > Newark

No F-ing way I am flying in a tin can for 14 hours direct to India. Zurich seems like a lot of museums and architecture on the surface - any advice on more hip diversions/adventures? Will be there for 1 night en route to India and 3 nights on the return.
 

Mumbai will be fully scripted - family is in the Big House Vice Chancellor residence on a big university campus with full staff. Will be in a comfy cocoon.
 

But Varansai (locals call it Banaras) is a bit intimidating. Oldest continuous dwelling on the planet and where Hindus come to die in holy funeral pyres on the Ganges River.
 

Any Zoners been there?
 

My son lived with a family there during his Gap Year program, and my wife returned with him a few years later. My India family knows Varanasi well, but I tend to often slip away on such trips for an afternoon to drift on my own … just gotta poke around.
 

Any suggestions? Not a question where I would turn to TripAdvisor for answers. Thanks in advance

Mark Twain said: "Benaras is older than history, older than tradition, older even than legend and looks twice as old as all of them put together”.

I was there back in 2001. I was going to skip because funeral city didn't appeal to me, but so glad I ended up going. Crazy place, crazy monkeys everywhere, and 24/7/365 cremating of bodies shipped in from all over India. The streets are so narrow that you can reach out and touch the walls on both sides. Smells like BBQ. I did a boat ride on the river but wouldn't recommend. You get the idea from standing on the side. Just walk around. 

Thank you, El Nino. Love the quote and the sage advice

Bon Voyage! Gonna keep an eye on this one. World travel threads are good threads. Have a blast , Nod.

Sounds like an epic adventure.  Are you getting a ton of shots before India?  Never been but want to and hear it's an overwhelming assault on the senses 

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hear it's an overwhelming assault on the senses 

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Hah, Ken!  When my son arrived in India for his Gap Year program, his very first post was entitled "Smelly Dehli"

Have been to Mumbai, and it was sensory overload, but pedestrians do not have the right of way and the streets were (literally) full of speeding Tuk Tuks - 3 wheeled motorized bike/taxis.

Spent most of my time just trying to get across the street.

Varanasi is gonna be real. More (holy) cows on the street than TukTuks.

Never again will I be such an alien :-)  Long, long way from Montville NJ in so many ways. No need for chemicals to trip balls this time around :-)

24 hours in cold and rZurich-Switzerland_0.jpgainy Zurich was a great way to break up travel to India. Pic is from a sunnier day.

The Diwali holiday in Inda - kind of a cross between Christmas and July 4th. Arrived in Mumbai

 

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My son married us into our India family 5 years ago. Wedding garb covered the big Stealie tat on his chest

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View from the 2nd floor patio of our room at Mumba

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India family gathering

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The reason I'm here ...

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Cool pics. Must be cool to have peeps who are locals and know the area.  Bet the food is amazing.

Thanks for sharing, donster. It sounds like there's a lot to be proud of for both families.

Thanks Ken & Joe.....  to be in such a different place, but not as tourists, is an amazing opportunity. Watched the finals India vs Australia of World Cup Cricket along w/ most of India (Aussies won) and I actually understood the rules by the end of the game.

Nothing like India food prepared by Indians!  And nothing like driving through the streets of Mumbai in a car with a professional driver - not for the faint of heart, Inch or two away from striking pedestrians ( who dont have right of way to cross busy streets and must calculate running for their lives to cross with inches between cars, motorcycles and people going in different directions at speeds. I would be a quivering pile of poo behind the wheel here

2 weeks to go!

I love that we have you to share your observations and experiences with us. Thank you.

Viva la Zone, Judit!

Love this thread, thanks for sharing.

From your itinerary, I've only visited Zurich.  Enjoyed my time there, and remember visiting a dispensary of plant medicines.  I spent far more time in smaller villages and rambling around the outdoors.

 

Diwali lights

https://vimeo.com/886722193

https://vimeo.com/886723096

A short drive in Mumbai (lot less crazy than my 1st one...)

https://vimeo.com/886724934

 

The Diwali lights are my kind of magical.

LLOLLO, the only place I've been on Don's itinerary was Newark (airport, 1978), also the only place I've been to east of the Rockies.

Judit, I sincerely hope that the trip you were planning before COVID happens for you soon! 

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beautiful lights, indeed, need to read up on that festival

Diwali 5.jpgStreet dog found a friend

Diwali 6.jpgLooking for a friend

Diwali 8.jpg...

Great stuff.  Thank you for sharing.   

Pretty lights, but looks like they need some more sidewalks (crosswalks too).

>>>they need some more sidewalks (crosswalks too).

You don't realize what a luxury it is to be able to walk in places without constantly looking down. My right toe is still fucked from slamming into a lip at the entrance of a store at the highest end mall in Bangkok 22 years ago. 

Digging this thread! 

Ken,

The coordination, eye contact & horns blowing between pedestrians, motorcycles, cars and bikes is astounding to behold. Lifetimes of practice.

Somehow they all make it work....

Arrived in Varanasi - the oldest known continuous community in the world..... 11th century BC (!)

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"holy cow" is much more than a saying in India (traffic was bad .... notice that motorcycle traffic was using the sidewalk .... soon to be joined by "Tuk Tuk" 3 wheeled taxis

https://vimeo.com/887338270

Driving in India is complete chaos, but somehow it always works

https://vimeo.com/887340738

 

 

Funeral fires on the Ganges River on Thursday

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leaving Vararasi.jpg   We had a stylish new Air B&B, but when we walked out the door it was into the ancient city. Lots of stray dogs & cows .... and lots of trash for them to scour for food

The first 100 yards from our lodging to the airport. Narrow trash lined streets

https://vimeo.com/888267387

The next 100 yards

https://vimeo.com/888269212