Vibes needed for my Dad please
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My dad may have had a stroke on Saturday night. He was not found until this afternoon. Please send out your extra vibes if you have them for my sweet, kind, honest, loyal, smart and funny father. I love him so very much. He is my best friend. I am 2500 miles from him and am so very sad. I just want to be there holding his hand.
Thankfully he is not alone. My brother arrived a few hours ago at the hospital and we are waiting on the results of his cat scan. If you can spare some vibes and prayers they would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so very much my beautiful zoner family.
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Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: dimethyllovebeam
awwwwwww.....best wishes for
awwwwwww, the distance makes it extra hard, best wishes for your dad's outcome, Merriweather, and you and your family's peace of mind.
((((((((((Dad, Merriweather and family)))))))))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Johnny D
You your father, and your
You your father, and your family have my strongest thoughts and prayers for the best of outcomes.
Keep us posted.
Love, John
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Thumbkinetic
{{{MerriFam}}}
{{{MerriFam}}}
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Vibes, strength, thoughts and
Vibes, strength, thoughts and prayers on route, merri
(((Papamerri)))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: treat island
Oh, dear Merri, it's terrible
Oh, dear Merri, it's terrible to be so far from your dear dad. Every time you've spoken of him it's with such love, admiration and enjoyment - I'm wishing and hoping for the best possible outcome.
Sending so much love to you, love and light to your dad, and all kinds of healing and helpful vibes.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: The11>12>
Hang in there MWG!
Hang in there MWG!
Many, many vibes to you and your family.
Sending love and hugs!
Ps-
I just finished those salt water taffies. Only lost one tooth.
JK
You're too sweet.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Imagine
I know what it feels like to
I know what it feels like to be thousands of miles away, Merri. Hold onto something or somebody.
All the best to your father and your family. May it all come out okay.
I'll be thinking of yall.
(((((Merri and father)))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: makaha
sending {{{{ love and
sending {{{{ love and strength }}}} from vermont
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: bsted
Much love and support Merri
Much love and support Merri from Northern California!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: I rang a silent bell
Healing vibes to your father!
Healing vibes to your father!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: nebulous nelly
Sending a prayer
Sending a prayer
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: My Name is
Healing Vibes Your Way
Healing Vibes Your Way
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Jackstraw
Let me know if we can help.
Let me know if we can help. Can pick you up at airport if you fly in etc... hang in there, I know how much you two do so much together. You're in our prayers.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Blue Rose Task Force
Very sad to hear this Merri.
Very sad to hear this Merri.
Surrounding you all, with Positive healing thoughts and Loving vibes.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Chuck511
So sorry to hear this Merri.
So sorry to hear this Merri. Sending my best wishes & thoughts for you dad.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: whats that irratating buzz, must
so sorry to hear this.
so sorry to hear this. Response time is critical for any ischemic event.
All the Best
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Def. High
{{{Merri's Dad}}}
{{{Merri's Dad}}}
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Alias
Wow, it must be so hard to be
Wow, it must be so hard to be far away at this time. Major vibes and best wishes to you and your family.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: BraMance
so much light and love to you
so much light and love to you
healing to your dad..hope you can get to him, either way; you're totally with him
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Bluelight
Major vibes and prayers for
Major vibes and prayers for your Dad, Merri.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Lucky Day
So sorry to hear this. Good
So sorry to hear this. Good vibes and long distance internet hugs being sent your way.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: St. Mark
Wishing your dad good health,
Wishing your dad good health, Merri. Sending good vibes.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: cb
(((Health and healing)))
(((Health and healing)))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Probable Cosby
((((((you)))))) ((((((your
((((((you)))))) ((((((your dad))))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Roy Batty
MWG, you are in my thoughts.
MWG, you are in my thoughts...Healing vibes to your father!
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((((( Healing )))))
((((( Healing )))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Joe
Sending healing vibes
Sending healing vibes
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: 19.5 Degrees
{{{{{ dad MWG & family }}}}}
{{{{{ dad MWG & family }}}}}
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Joe
Love and light for your
Love and light for your father and yourself. Hang in there
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Merri, I wish for the best of
Merri, I wish for the best of possible outcomes
(((((Merri's Pa)))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Brennan
all the best to you and your
all the best to you and your family
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Spirit zoner
Best wishes for your Dad's
Best wishes for your Dad's speedy recovery.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: jonaspond
Hope you find a way to be
Hope you find a way to be there with him. Take care.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: DRazzy
Super healing vibes being
Super healing vibes being sent out for your dad! Lots of love being sent to you!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: ParadiseWaits
Get well, Merri-Father!
Get well, Merri-Father!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: skyjunk
Prayers are with your Father,
Prayers are with your Father, best wishes for your Family
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: hooper
We will keep you and your
We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Hang in there.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: tracy
Sending you all my love <3
Sending you all my love <3
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: catchabigone
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{VIBES for DAD
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{VIBES for DAD}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: An organ grinder’s tune
Best wishes your way
Best wishes your way
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((((Healing vibes for
((((Healing vibes for MerriDad))))
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((V))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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beaming positive energy and
beaming positive energy and healing vibes for MWG's Dad
also infusing love and strength to her extended family during this difficult time
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Imagine
Hi, Merri. Any news?
Hi, Merri. Any news?
(((((continued vibes)))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Sun so hot, clouds so low
Good morning and
Good morning and
((((((((Good Vibes))))))))
Hope your dad is ok. Sending strength and healing
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Blue Rose Task Force
sending more love and vibes
sending more love and vibes
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Ramble on Rose
Thank you so very much for
Thank you so very much for the vibes sweet people. The whole family could feel your love being sent to us.
Update
Not a Stroke!!!! Cat scan and 2 MRI's came back clean!!! They think it is a blood pressure thing.
The story goes something like this. Dad lives alone, he woke up around 2am on Saturday night/Sunday morning and wasn't feeling well. As he headed for the bathroom he passed out face first into a glass wall and knocked himself out. He regained consciousness around 20 hours later in a pool of blood from hitting his face and could not move his arms or legs. He could hear his neighbors and tried to yell for help but didn't have enough strength. He laid on the floor not being able to move for over 2 days. Heartbreaking. Thankfully a client called the police because Dad missed a meeting with her on Monday evening and she was worried. They found him on Tuesday around 11am.
He is in the hospital and my brother is with him. He is pretty banged up and still has very little use of his arms. The doctors think since they were pinned under him for so many hours the lack of motion is from loss of blood circulation. Neurologically, everything seems fine. Emotionally he is a mess. He had spent 2 days on the floor afraid he was going to die and reliving his life over and over in his head. Being in his 70's he lost a lot of confidence in his ability to live alone safely but I am hoping it is an overreaction to the situation. (I think he may have fainted before but he did not tell us. A neighbor mentioned to my brother if he knew of the "other times" this had happened and we had no idea. We will have to have a serious conversation about this but now is not the time. He needs to heal.)
In a few days they will transfer him to an acute rehab center for 14 days to monitor his progress and he will have 4 to 6 hours of physical therapy which is great! If at that point he still is having issues, I will go and stay with him until he is able to take good care of himself. I feel very blessed to have a lifestyle that gives me the opportunity to be flexible with work/life so I can be there for him. Family is forever and I am so very lucky to still have most of mine.
Thank you so much for the love and vibes beautiful friends. I am a caretaker at heart and am so far away from my family it was really rough not being there. You gave me strength and hope at a scary time and I really appreciate your support. Huge hugs and kisses.
Viva la Zone!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Joe
Great news merriweather girl
Great news merriweather girl
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: the obvious was clear
Great New re not a Stroke,
Great New re not a Stroke, good that your Brother can be there with him. Hoping for best case recovery.
Love & Light
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: MikePA
right on Meri - hope this
right on Meri - hope this turns out well for your Dad...
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: judit
Dear sweet one, I'm so glad
Dear sweet one, I'm so glad to read your report. It sounds like the time ahead will be tough for him, as he figures out what he needs to do, but he has you and your family supporting him, something you do so well.
Much love.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Sycamore Slough
Wishing you and your Dad all
Wishing you and your Dad all the Best. I am happy for you that you are able to assist Him if need be.
Went through a few different 'Stumble & Fall' incidents with my Dad back when. The first was a face-plant on the brick steps by his kitchen door, and I was fortunately swimming in the pool 100 yards away so I could run over and help him up. In retrospect, he could have had a concussion (but did not) so the proper thing would have been a trip to E-Room.
We did put a hand-rail up on those steps, but later falls were other spots.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Johnny D
Thanks for sharing the news.
Thanks for sharing the news.
I'm so glad to see that your Dad will go to acute rehab. So much better than a SNF. I've seen amazing results from this level of care.
Best to Dad and Family
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Is forgiveness possible?
Great news! Healing vibes to
Great news! Healing vibes to your Dad. Peaceful vibes to you.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: .............
So scary to read, but also so
So scary to read, but also so good to hear he didnt have a stroke....
You are a good egg, as they say, merri
Continued prayers and strength for all
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Sycamore Slough
A similar incident happened
A similar incident happened to an ex-Girlfriend's Mom, only she fell getting into the tub and broke a hip. It was a couple days before a relative found her. She could not manage to get out and phone for help. She lived through the incident, but soon sold the house and opted for assisted living.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: O'Toole
Glad he's ok, what a scary
Glad he's ok, what a scary thing to happen for everyone. Peace, Love and Light !
(((((((((((((Merri-Dad-Feel-Better)))))))))))))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: candyfrog
good news Merri.
good news Merri.
get well soon Dad!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: joe
Glad for you that it wasn't
Glad for you that it wasn't something worse.
((((Dads))))
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Strangha
So happy to hear of the good
So happy to hear of the good outcome thus far, MG.
Frustrating for you to be far away. My dad was 700 miles away from me when he tripped and went head first into a wall.
If he's a vet, especially during a wartime period, make sure you check out options with the VA.
People sometimes make fun up those call buttons for when "I've fallen and I can't get up". For folks at that age, sometimes they're a good idea.
Continued good vibes and outcomes. Glad to finally see a report on progress, and it was good!
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Markd (not MarkD)
Have been caretaker to my
Have been caretaker to my parents for past 6 years. Forced them to move closer to me (were 1.5 hours away before). Mother had dementia, father and her in denial for years. Took it's toll on him and he ends up beaten down and a nasal infection necessitates a craniotomy which he survives, but begets a series of seizures as he doesn't regulate his meds.
The move was brutal as he hated the thought of losing his independence. It was a struggle to get him to wear the lifelink products, etc. Meanwhile, mother's dementia progresses.
Fast forward, Mother just passed in October. Quickly, peacefully and mercifully. Over a decade with Alz.
Father, now alone, physically older than his 86 years, mentally strong, but crazy (Fox News poisoned what was previously an apolitical man).
Prayers for your fathers recovery and most importantly, his ability to recognize that he will need help as his moves through his new realities of life. If he can do that, it will make his runway longer and all of your families lives easier.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Strangha
Vibes and MUCH respect to you
Vibes and MUCH respect to you too, Markd. Tough stretch you've persevered through and you deserve BIG kudos for caring for your folks.
Touching video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYN60C5iEfw
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Grammar Goddess
<<<Prayers for your fathers
<<<Prayers for your fathers recovery and most importantly, his ability to recognize that he will need help as his moves through his new realities of life. If he can do that, it will make his runway longer and all of your families lives easier.
^THIS!
Very glad to read that your dad didn't have a stroke and is back on the mend, Merri!