Opinions on Parish?

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I've listened to his XM show a time or two and he either has the best memory of any drug-addled person ever or he makes a lot of shit up. Like Phil dosing for 99 percent of the Dead's shows. I know he got David Kemper fired from the Jerry band way back when. Probably roughed up a lot of heads back in the day. He gives off the "peace and love" vibes on his show and somehow ended up doing meet and greets during this DeadCo residency and fans said he was likable.

Just curious.

I know that he was there, man  but wondering if any Zoners had run-ins with him.

He gave me a blood blister once when moving a bass amp, lol

His band sucks and he's a dick in person. Not a fan. YMMV

The word "blowhard" comes to mind.

ive always been pretty skeptical of the phil dosing for 99% of gd shows thing. nobody wants to believe that more than me...but idk man.

He's too old to be intimidating any more so he plays nice.

If Phil was dosing in the 90s, it must have been some real bunk sh*t, and / or a bad trip.

 I know he got David Kemper fired from the Jerry band way back when<<<

Pretty sure that was Garcia's call with Steve just playing the heavy. Can't really blame him for it.

Probably roughed up a lot of heads back in the day. <<<<

They probably deserved it. 

 

The kemper thing never made any sense to me, from any angle

"Hey Brother Steve, I met you outside the back door Milwaukee 1972."

"I remember you. We were paying a 3 night run. Great shows."

 

First, no way in hell the guy "remembers" 90% of the minutia he says he does. Second, I know GDP was like a family, but Christ, he needs to drop the "we." He wasn't in the band and he didn't play at any of the shows.

If people enjoy his show, cool with me. I turn it off. His book wasn't that great either.

Least favorite member of the community... at best.

"You're a damn good audience!'
-Steve Parish 

Steve's show is better than Lambert & Gans but that doesn't say much. 

... "Well, you ain't so big, you just tall, that's all"

find him insufferable. and yes, his show is better than gans'...that's how bad that shit it.

 

He gave us Garcia's roaches from atop his amp during a load-out when JGB played my college gym in the 70's...

>>>Probably roughed up a lot of heads back in the day. <<<<

No first hand stories but plenty of second hand stories that would burn off both your ears. Made me realize even when I was very young and very stupid that the barrier at the front of the stage was also there to keep the audience safe from the people back there.  Enter at your own risk. One that stuck with me is Kidd breaking into cars and ripping off stereos for the fun of it at Oxford, and Natascha may have faired well back there at 16 but that was not the case for some of the people I knew. 

>>>One that stuck with me is Kidd breaking into cars and ripping off stereos for the fun of it at Oxford.

Was the crew breaking into people's cars during shows?

One of the more enjoyable Steve shows I"ve heard was when he interviewed Sam Cutler. But both of them love to talk and there's usually a delay between Steve and the caller so it was pretty painful to listen to. Some good stories though and it was cool listening to them reminisce. 

No personal stories, but I remember in my early years at Shoreline being excited that the Dead were coming and I mentioned that to the production manager, who went back with Bill Graham Presents to the early Winterland days.

I said that after so many years of him working with the band he must be looking forward to seeing his old friends. He glared at me and said that the GD crew were by far the worst touring crew in the business to work with, that other than Ramrod they were all total assholes who made impossible demands and created problems just so they could scream at everyone and make a scene.

He said that Parish and Robbie Taylor were the worst, he dreaded the upcoming shows and couldn't wait until they were over.

I think it's important to remember that the pixie dust hippie persona that surrounded the band, the "Grateful Dead ethos", was created and expanded over time by the fans, not the group. They were all crusty road dogs who hung out with Hells Angels, not the type of folks you'd want your daughter to hook up with.

As for what Parrish does now, personally I have never listened to much of anything he has to say, but what the hell, a guy's gotta make a living.